Bla bla bla. Man you’re techey! Or touchy as some say. Man up! Grow a pair! If you want to be a real woman in this wourld you can’t act like a little boy! You have to take it like a real woman. Be Strong, and Vengeful! Take some pain now (or at Thanksgiving I mean)so you can lord the pain of your sacrifice over the hearts of all who witnessed it for the next 20 years. The power you gain will be massive compaired to the little indescretion of a lie. But seriously folks….They havn’t had time to really think about it. I would be willing to bet that if you had said nothing they would have changed their mind by Thanksgiving. But you are not giving them time. Sometimes writers need to know when to not.